Discussion
Focus is on singles seemly to be getting hitched at a later age and tieing the knot much later. Among the views exchange, there are views like:
People often stay in the dating stage, but never progress to marriage.
People are more focuses on building their careers. Not enough time to socialise, to meet new people.
Personal expectation of the opposite mate is too high and often ppl will reject many suitors as they are not what the person initially expected.
There will always be someone better out there then the one currently with you. Thus one may hestiate to progress or take the relationship seriously to the next stage.
How the current packages promote population boost, encouraging singles to get attached, how companies today practise family friendly policies.
Marriage is not just being life partners, but being best friends.
Personal Views
I believe its a matter of choice to make time to seek opportunities to meet new people or get to know better of others. As for expectations, i believe is a matter of meeting more people, one will be able to gauge roughly what they personally actually want in their partners and what they know to expect realistically. Dating is often enjoying the romance of pursuit while marriage is just a official declaration to recognise this couple as husband and wife, a family unit.
Biologicially, i believe its the instincts or genes inside us that will spur us to look for the opposite sex to carry on our genes. Thus its perhaps logically to say that its natural to look for a life partner to settle down and set up a family.
Putting it in today context where the world is facing ever growing human population, it seems insignificant if lives are lost as there will no lack of humans to replace us. What make us unique is the intangible memories we left behind to the people we interact. Time will heal for the departure of the permantly loss and perhaps never be forgottened until this generation cease to exist or his/her works carry their beliefs, ideas that influzence the generations later and may so call be consider their "successors" as they carry on their work. The difference is their gene. But again, does giving birth necessary carry the identical genes to the baby? Or, only a certain percentage? But giving birth can also be based on diffent objectives. Perhaps subconsiously, it is simply to satisfy a compelling urge of reproduction that rest inside us? Our instinct?
What makes us unique in a social context is perhaps is only our financial contribution to the society. Whether will we be a asset valued by the system we created. Our career.
Psychological, perhaps we do want to rely on that someone that we know we can pour our feelings, commitments, troubles as its not normal to be alone for the rest of your life? But again, there are people who chose this way.
I begin to feel im talking nonsense again. Haha. Just random thoughts after viewing the show. Sianz...tomorrow go work, time to recap and stress is going to be back. Hope no aftermath disputes waiting for me to clear. But i also looking forward to see her face again. Just to see only. Y? Perhaps i have gather data that indicated i do not belong to the category of guys she looking for. And i also dont trust myself, my feelings. Cant find the apporpriate reasons to justify why do i feel this way. Excuse?
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