Superfical m i? or its human?

From Flirtable to Speeddate, a recent application i added to facebook. No harm trying right? Browsing the profiles, its becoming alarming to me that if i do not take action, perhaps i really become a balchelor, haha...maybe its what i want to be, is it?

Looking the photos, skipping those that doesnt appeal to you, make me wonder am i superficial? Or its just plain human instinct, being attracted to the better looking sex. Even so, i also hold back from taking action, because i dont have the confident. Haha..battle is defeated before it was fought.

Rejections, i dont handle it well. But if you dont fight, dont try, how to gain experience, and figure whats suitable for you?

Is it a society/ peer pressure when you come to the ripe age to find a partner to settle down? Looking at 30s plus people posting their profile on line, i being to wonder that when I reach this age, will i be desperate, begin to seriously start this search? If the opposite gender till this age not attached, what does this mean? They are picky? They are not pleasant to the eyes? Their attitude are difficult? Other more reasons? Or is it its my eyes and mental perception of their photos that make these assumption, so im the ugly one?

Even those who looks appealing, one need to get to know their inner self, their character, attitude, likes and dislikes, habits, to know if 2 can complement one another and stick by each other. It takes more than 1 photo to establish this relationship and keep it real, but we use the photos as 1st step to place our bet.