Building self confidence

Some tips of building confidence
Avoid perfectionism. Perfectionism paralyzes you and keeps you from accomplishing your goals.

Turn feelings of envy or jealousy into a desire to achieve. Stop wanting what others have just because they have it; seek things simply because you want them, whether anybody else has them or not.

Stop worrying. What worries you today will be forgotten by you and people around you tomorrow. Can you remember what you were so worried about the same day the same time last week? If not, then you should not worry right now. You will not worry about it even one week from now.

Be Positive, even if you don't feel positive. Avoid self-pity, or the pity and sympathy of others. Never allow others to make you feel inferior--they can only do so if you let them. If you continue to loathe and belittle yourself, others are going to do and believe likewise. Instead, speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about your progress. Do not be afraid to project your strengths and qualities to others. By doing so, you reinforce those ideas in your mind and encourage your growth in a positive direction.

Why, the need to have confidence? Reason is a selfish one, the decision to test water, to pursuit a target. But doing this, also upset one of my fundamental principles. Totally no office romance or dating allow!!!

If action taken, intentions revealed to the party, results are as follows:

Yes - Optimum results, a start to next level. Easier say then done.

No - Complications: What will happen if each going to see each other in the couse of work? Won't it be embarassing? Actions following by "no" answer.

1. Remain as collegues? But the feeling will linger for a while. What if she share the matter with the rest of collegues?

2. Remain persistant.

3. Accept rejection, be a gentleman in front and be a tazan at night, hitting yr chest at nite.

Wait - No answers or whatever hints which is hard to understand. What shall i do? Wait?

Caution: Once intentions is reveal, the action is irreversal and relationship will not be as the same as previous. Endanger the current relationship which involves 2 aspects, a working relationship and a personal one, in this case. R u sure u want to do it?