Friends getting married

Got a email from a close friend. She send her ROM online gallery and post her love story to share this wonderful news to the world.

Although i was shock, haha, ok, not shock, perhaps, surprise, pleasantly surprise, that she decided to tie the knot. Haha, i listen to her complains and grumbling but still deep down in her heart, she loves this person who love her back. Shes a happy fruit, kai xin guo, and i know her hubby will make her kai xin :)

The decision to get married officially, is a sign of committment, recognised by the society. Both party will promised each other despite old, illness or whatever happens, they will stand by each other. Life seems fulfilling when u knw yr existence is there for someone special and that special some1 recipocate the same fuzzy feeling.

Perhaps whats important in relationships, is just love, to be who u r really and he/she accept who u r and not what u pretending to be. U can be yrself and the opposite party will be by your side no matter what happens. Love is also like an double edge sword, the more u let some1 into your heart, the more vulnerable u r to his/her actions. But its a risk one has to take to find love in this materialise world which other variable like earning power, the ability to provide for the future, the capacility to achieve a save haven for yr family.

Who m i kidding, definitely this is a condition. To love some1, is not to let the person suffer with u, or to rephase, to provide the best within your means to bri comfort and love to yr family. I emphasize the word "best". But to what degree is your partner's wants and your combine earning power and time, two of them need to compromise to settle on the standard of living they can afford without forgotting they r together because of the love, not because of something else.

Wish them be happy and blissful as always and their relationships will last through the test of time and trials and their love, affection and commitment with each other will become stronger when facing new challenges of the married life.